Comments on: Denis! You can’t be friends with your Ex-Girlfriend! http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/ Date Ideas for Couples Wed, 08 Feb 2012 11:50:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Alex from marriage relationship http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1437 Alex from marriage relationship Fri, 27 Aug 2010 06:56:22 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-1437 For me being friend with an Ex is not that big deal as long as I know deep inside me that it's just purely friend relationship. Though, most of the time, people will think negatively about you since you were in a romantic relationship before. I do have an Ex friend and we are still hanging out together with our cycle of friends and it seems normal for us, just one thing guys, know your limitations while being friend with an Ex. There are cases that one will really tease you or even seduce you, I know it's normal, yeah, for singles, for a not attach individuals, but for those who have present romantic relationship, BEWARE and know your limitations as a human being. For me being friend with an Ex is not that big deal as long as I know deep inside me that it’s just purely friend relationship. Though, most of the time, people will think negatively about you since you were in a romantic relationship before. I do have an Ex friend and we are still hanging out together with our cycle of friends and it seems normal for us, just one thing guys, know your limitations while being friend with an Ex. There are cases that one will really tease you or even seduce you, I know it’s normal, yeah, for singles, for a not attach individuals, but for those who have present romantic relationship, BEWARE and know your limitations as a human being.

]]> By: Srinivasan http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1208 Srinivasan Sun, 11 Jul 2010 07:21:34 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-1208 Being friends with an Ex is the most natural thing but we have this primitive gene being carried within us that makes friendship between a man and women suspect. Being friends with an Ex is the most natural thing but we have this primitive gene being carried within us that makes friendship between a man and women suspect.

]]> By: Jamis Begby http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-847 Jamis Begby Fri, 29 Jan 2010 12:03:49 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-847 What you had is rare and unfortunately it seams a shame that it was cut short, however it does point out that the trust in their relationship doesn't seem as strong, so ya never know she may contact you again in the future. It also shows the strength in your marriage which I'm excited to ... See moresee and commend you on. In general talking with ex's don't seem to bring much joy to current relationships, jealousy is a bitch but I think the odd catch up hear and there is ok, but a weekly thing is not.. What you had is rare and unfortunately it seams a shame that it was cut short, however it does point out that the trust in their relationship doesn’t seem as strong, so ya never know she may contact you again in the future. It also shows the strength in your marriage which I’m excited to … See moresee and commend you on. In general talking with ex’s don’t seem to bring much joy to current relationships, jealousy is a bitch but I think the odd catch up hear and there is ok, but a weekly thing is not..

]]> By: Scott http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-844 Scott Thu, 28 Jan 2010 22:26:10 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-844 I am still friends with my ex (of 2 years) from a 5 year relationship it makes it difficult sometimes whilst i am in a relationship for my current partner, but i somehow manage to make it work. I think it has alot to do with insecurities and trust issues with partners, especially in fresh relationships. She (my ex) is not someone i would ever go back to or slip up with. She is however someone that i have been through alot with in the past and someone i would like to think would be there for me as a friend in the future as i would for her. So i believe you can be friends with an ex! I am still friends with my ex (of 2 years) from a 5 year relationship it makes it difficult sometimes whilst i am in a relationship for my current partner, but i somehow manage to make it work.

I think it has alot to do with insecurities and trust issues with partners, especially in fresh relationships.

She (my ex) is not someone i would ever go back to or slip up with. She is however someone that i have been through alot with in the past and someone i would like to think would be there for me as a friend in the future as i would for her.

So i believe you can be friends with an ex!

]]> By: jolene http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-843 jolene Thu, 28 Jan 2010 10:40:40 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-843 i totally agree with you guys,there should be no rules, you dont own a person your together cause you love them and want to be in each others lives, as long as your being open and truthful and doing the right thing there is no problem, your with your current partner/wife cause you want to be. if you wanted to be with the x thats where you still would be. I would be more disappointed that your friend cut you off for such a wanker who obviously is insecure in himself and taking it out on her and destroying her friendships she has made with people. its natural to feel jealousy at some stages we are only human but there is a point where that can go overboard and your friends boyfriend has done that!!! i totally agree with you guys,there should be no rules, you dont own a person your together cause you love them and want to be in each others lives, as long as your being open and truthful and doing the right thing there is no problem, your with your current partner/wife cause you want to be. if you wanted to be with the x thats where you still would be. I would be more disappointed that your friend cut you off for such a wanker who obviously is insecure in himself and taking it out on her and destroying her friendships she has made with people. its natural to feel jealousy at some stages we are only human but there is a point where that can go overboard and your friends boyfriend has done that!!!

]]> By: D http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/2010/01/25/you-can%e2%80%99t-be-friends-with-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-838 D Wed, 27 Jan 2010 11:22:05 +0000 http://blog.30dollardatenight.com/?p=1704#comment-838 I am still friends with an ex, my first love actually, and now my husband and he are friends also! At first, this felt more weird for ME than him...but its all good now. We live in different countries, but they fb chat & skype (far more than I do with the Ex). So, I think a big part of being able to be friends with an Ex is being secure in your marriage/relationship to allow the friendship with the Ex to form new boundaries and continue on. I am still friends with an ex, my first love actually, and now my husband and he are friends also! At first, this felt more weird for ME than him…but its all good now. We live in different countries, but they fb chat & skype (far more than I do with the Ex). So, I think a big part of being able to be friends with an Ex is being secure in your marriage/relationship to allow the friendship with the Ex to form new boundaries and continue on.

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