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For Men: How to Buy Lingerie for Your Sweetie
Today’s post is written by the saucy Bra Queen, who knows more about lingerie than anyone I know!
Valentine’s Day is coming and you’re probably thinking about what a con the whole shebang is. To be honest? You’re probably right. But any man worth his weight in gold would want to Va-va-VOOM his Valentine. Blow her out of the water by surprising her with a gorgeous lingerie set!
As a guy, the thought of buying lingerie probably gives you the trembles. But trust me, your sweetie will love it. Provided you do it right… Here’s how to put the Ooh in Ooh La La!
1. Don’t Give the Game Away!
Don’t tell her - this is where most men give it away! Say nothing, just do…
2. Picking the Right Lingerie Means Doing Some Legwork
Buy her a lingerie set that is both classy and sexy. Women love sexy, but hate cheap or trashy. If you’re not sure of your sweetie’s style, head to Bra Queen and do the Are You Naughty or Nice? quiz to give you an idea of what she will like. (Remember to answer the questions from your partner’s point of view, not yours!).
If you don’t know her size, sneak a peek in her drawers to find out. Alternatively, you can very casually say “Hey, I was reading an article in the paper today and it said that 40% of women are a DD Cup… what are you again?”
3. Make a Day of It!
When you kiss her goodbye in the morning to go on your little adventure, just give her a big kiss - no groping, no fondling, just kiss, enjoy and walk out the door.
Once you’re back with your stash, hide it and then cook her favourite meal and do the dishes (remember: this is practically foreplay for women!). Enjoy some wine together, make her laugh and put a sparkle in her eye.
Let her unwrap her present and offer to put the kids to bed (if applicable!) or clean up while she takes some time to herself - this gives her a chance to try the lingerie on and freshen up in private.
Once she’s ready, meet her in the bedroom, tell her how great she looks in the new lingerie you bought her and take it from there! Make it all about her - whatever she wants tonight, goes.
I promise it will spice up your love life and I’m sure she’ll return the favour!
Good Luck and Happy Valentine’s Day!
The Bra Queen x
P.S. Faire Frou Frou have up to 75% off their entire collection for Valentine’s Day.
P.P.S. For Bra Reviews on particular brands, check out Bra Queen’s Blog.
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My wife of 15 years is a larger lass and my 1 & only attempt in our younger years of courtship to buy a very nice outfit (her GF’s at the time said it was nice - I had 2 of them help me) turned into a disaster - she never wore it. I have been trying to encourage her to wear nice everyday lingerie (bras etc) & I want to get her something nice so she can forget about her size & being a mum & feel terrific. Any pointers for the (very) nervous school boy that has resurfaced?